Threshold values – Using The Point Of Action Model
Threshold values – I have a model that I used to find the women I’ve dated most of the time. It is a simple 5 person model that is flexible enough to fit any kind of pick up group you are involved in.
There are 5 basic models that I use to find women. Two others that are very similar but have some minor differences.
The first model I use is simply to ask people what they are after. This is not the wrong question. But rather to ask “What is that ideal person who can fulfill all my needs”. In other words, “What kind of person could be my companion for life?” From there, you can start creating a fantasy which person could be that person.
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My next step is to notice what I have given them and what they have given me
I can take this a couple of ways. I may write it down and visualize it. Or I may just think about it. Now some people would just say “Hey, give me a compliment”. As annoying as it may be to some people, it works well for me because it not only helps me mentally, it also helps me to see what they like and it helps me to take into account personality and all that that goes with it.
I find this works especially well when dealing with socializing in clubs, bars or parties. All these situations are very high traffic environments with a lot of noise and distractions.
Here is another model to use for finding women too. I am traveling a lot for work and I strike on pretty much every woman I meet Threshold values. What I would do is just break down the whole pick up into a brief exchange. I break it down into “Action Plus Interaction”.
This works because it breaks down the pick up into a series of “bombsars” or you could think of it as a “love at first sight” model. I’ll explain a bit about the logic behind the logic.
You like this beautiful woman because she is attractive. And you are getting positive signals from her. She likes you because she is giving you positive signals.
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Here is the flaw though. Since you are such a great guy, she is always going to be giving you positive signals. She is going to like you. She is going to be opening doors for you, she is going to approve your requests and whatever else you can think of.
Here comes the third model
This model can be a bit more complex. Basically you do not simply meet a woman, you get to spend an hour or so getting to know her. She is also communicating with you and displaying signs of attraction.
Finally you MUST be comparing her to those previous girls that were giving you positive signals, not to her ex or other women you are past with.
So the net result for you after this process is that you are going to get a pretty accurate picture of what she is like with any given time.
Now some green-eyedpathfinders out there are going to tell you that there are perfect women and that no one really is what they seem. One should learn as they go. I think that there are at least a couple of real afforders out there that are pretty good pointers as to what you should look out for. Getting a clear picture of what is really going on is really a case of trial and error finding the exhibits ending up on a set of mutually agreeable views.
